A Weekend Workshop for Couples who feel disconnected, stuck, or caught in the same patterns, and want to address it before it becomes something more serious
About the Workshop
Many couples wait until problems feel overwhelming before seeking help.
More often, relationship distress develops gradually, through repeated misunderstandings, unresolved conflict, and increasing emotional distance.
This workshop is designed for couples who recognize that something isn’t working and want to address it in a thoughtful and structured way.
Over the course of the weekend, you will work privately with your partner using research-based tools and guided exercises to better understand your relationship and begin making meaningful changes.
All work is done as a couple. There is no required group sharing or public disclosure.
Who is the workshop for?
This workshop is appropriate for couples who:
- feel emotionally disconnected or distant
- find themselves having the same unresolved conversations
- are functioning day-to-day but feel something is missing
- want to strengthen their relationship before problems escalate
This workshop may not be appropriate for couples experiencing active addiction, ongoing violence, or severe instability.
Why a Workshop?
This workshop provides:
- uninterrupted time to focus on your relationship
- a structured approach to understanding and shifting patterns
- immediate application of practical tools
- the opportunity to address concerns more directly and efficiently
About Dr. Mesha Ellis
Dr. Mesha Ellis is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist with over 20 years of experience working with couples and families.
She is a Certified Gottman Method Therapist and Consultant, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor, and has extensive experience working with complex relational dynamics, including high-conflict and court-involved families.
Her work integrates clinical expertise with a structured, thoughtful approach to helping couples better understand and improve their relationships.
Dr. Mesha Ellis
is the founder of The Institute for Relationship Wellness & Sexual Health with practice locations in Torrance, California; Atlanta, Georgia; and Las Vegas, Nevada. She additionally provides services to residents of Tennessee.
Workshop topics include:
This workshop is based on over four decades of research on relationships and includes:
Understanding patterns of conflict and disconnection
Recognizing the “Four Horsemen” and how to interrupt them
Strengthening friendship, respect, and emotional connection
Improving communication and conflict management
Rebuilding trust and increasing intimacy
You will receive structured materials and tools to continue applying what you learn after the workshop.
The workshop includes science-based lectures, video demonstrations, role plays, as well as tools that partners will practice and utilize. The small, intimate group size provides an opportunity for Dr. Ellis to give one-on-one support to participating couples
Registration includes:
In addition to a greater understanding of how to build friendship, manage conflict, and create shared meaning in your relationship, you will receive The Art and Science of Love box set, which contains:
- Two (2) Couples Workbooks
- One (1) Repair Checklist
- One (1) Aftermath of a Fight Booklet
- Seven (7) Card Decks
- Love Map
- Opportunity
- Open-Ended Questions
- Rituals of Connection
- Salsa (Mild, Medium, Hot)
CHOOSE THE FORMAT THAT FITS YOUR NEEDS
Hawaii Experience
September 19–20, 2026
Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort & Spa 2552 Kalakaua Ave, Honolulu, Hawaii 96815
This format provides an opportunity to step away from daily responsibilities and focus more fully on your relationship in a calm, private setting.
Many couples find that a change in environment allows for greater clarity, reflection, and engagement in the work.
Workshop Schedule:
Saturday: 9:00 AM – 5:30 PM
Sunday: 9:00 AM – 5:30 PM
Investment: $895 per couple
(Includes materials; lodging and meals not included)
Las Vegas Expereince
November 20–22, 2026
University of Nevada, Las Vegas 4505 S. Maryland Pkwy. Las Vegas, NV 89154
This format offers a structured and practical approach in a more traditional workshop setting.
It is well-suited for couples who want focused, skills-based work without travel-related complexity.
Workshop Schedule:
Friday: 4:30 PM – 8:00 PM
Saturday: 10:30 AM – 5:30 PM
Sunday: 12:30 PM – 3:00 PM
Investment: $895 per couple
(Includes materials and refreshments; lodging and meals not included)
Many couples wait until their relationship feels more strained before seeking support.
This workshop is designed for those who want to better understand what is happening and begin addressing it in a more intentional way.
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Couples will work privately on exercises designed to increase warmth, intimacy, and address the challenges in their relationship. Dr. Ellis will be available to support couples one-on-one during exercises. There is no
group work, sharing, or public disclosure.
Please note: after registering for the workshop, Dr. Ellis will contact you to discuss logistics, review policies, and obtain more information
Event Policies
Transfer/Cancellation Policy:
If cancellation is made on or before 30 days prior to the workshop, a full refund minus a $75 processing fee will be given. If your cancellation occurs after the cut-off date, your registration will be converted to a credit, good for a full year, that can be applied to future workshops.
COVID-19 Policy:
All couple’s workshops and clinical trainings (“events”) hosted by the Institute for Relationship Wellness & Sexual Health (IRWSH) adhere to the following policy: *Presently, all in-person events will proceed without restrictions or limitations.* Live In-Person events will follow any social distancing mandates as well as any local ordinances, including but not limited to the recommendation of face coverings. If local statutes change and prevent a scheduled in-person event, -or- low attendance is projected, the event will be held virtually on the same dates. Should an In-Person event be switched to an online event, you may either a) attend the online event, b) request a full refund, or c) request your registration be applied toward a future event within the next 12 months.
Inclement Weather Policy:
All couple’s workshops and clinical trainings (“events”) hosted by IRWSH adhere to the following policy: Events will be cancelled due to inclement weather ONLY if the Venue where the event is being hosted is closed, if there is a government ordered travel ban, or if the presenters are prohibited by weather from being there. If the event is cancelled due to inclement weather, you may either a) request a full refund, or b) request your registration fee to be applied to a rescheduled date or to another IRWSH event of your choosing in the next 12-month period. Any travel expenses that may have been incurred cannot be refunded. If the event is held, but weather conditions or other factors prohibit your safe travel so you are unable to attend, your registration fee will be applied to another IRWSH event of your choosing in the next 12-month period.
If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact me at 678-538-6450. I am looking forward to meeting you and sharing this amazing weekend with you!